helping children find faith
Gentle parenting or Biblical parenting?
Ed Drew
A Christian grandad has just returned from a weekend with his "clan". His children are all Christians, married to great Christian spouses and he adores his grandkids. He knows he is blessed indeed. He wanted to have a quiet word with me: “It was chaos! I can’t see how modern parenting methods can work. The parents aren’t in charge.”
Church is a place where we can compare and discuss different generations’ styles of parenting. It might not be a common or simple conversation. Most of us would walk away from a conversation about our parenting style feeling awash with insecurity, judgement and fear! My friend, the Christian grandad, remembers being obeyed the first time he gave a command. Smacking was a part of his armoury, so were big bear hugs and family Bible times. In his day, it would have been normal for children to feel an element of fear when their father confronted them over their behaviour.
culture watch
Taylor Swift and the mistreatment of women
Rebecca Chapman
What do the new Archbishop of Canterbury and Taylor Swift have in common? They have both been subject to some pretty unpleasant behaviour – online and offline – as women in the public eye.
The new Archbishop, Sarah Mullally, broke down at the General Synod earlier this year. She told the Synod, “I would love to encourage women, which I do all the time, but there continues to be institutional barriers, we continue to experience micro-aggressions,” before turning away from the microphone, fighting back tears. On the announcement of her appointment to the top Church of England job in October, those of us still on X/Twitter couldn’t fail to miss what one user called the “venomous reaction” from “hardcore Catholics” and “culture war atheists”.
engaging with culture today
Sharing the gospel in a multicultural world
Jonnie Green
Who is your neighbour? I’ve enjoyed living in some very mixed neighbourhoods: Cantonese families next to Pakistani families, Ukrainian young professionals sharing housing with Indian graduates. In a culture which is growing increasingly fearful of the foreigner, the church has an amazing opportunity to share the gospel globally by sharing it locally.
But how? If, like me, you have existed within Western culture your entire life, we have been submerged into the waters of modernity. The very way that we see the world sits within the frame carved out by Plato, Kant and Nietzsche. We cannot help it. As Christians the way we think, feel, and see the gospel also sits within this frame. So how can I possibly share the gospel in a way which connects with someone who sees the world in a different frame? Someone who thinks, feels, and sees the world in a different way to me?
Lessons from a three-hour church service
It's sometimes said that culture is like a river. To fully appreciate its flow, you need to get in it. I had the privilege of putting this into practice recently when I visited a church with a predominantly Nigerian membership.
Rather than observing from a distance, I got to swim in the stream of their worship. It highlighted several ways in which my own multi-ethnic church values certain things differently. This doesn't automatically mean either set of practices is better or worse. But the customs reveal the creeds underneath. Experiencing the differences first-hand helped me sense what was going on under the surface.