What can we learn from death doulas?

Andrew Drury  |  Comment
Date posted:  25 May 2026
Share Add       
What can we learn from death doulas?

Photo by KATRIN BOLOVTSOVA via Pexels

There is increasing interest as to what death doulas (who are also called end-of-life doulas, soul midwives, death coaches, dying guides, death midwives, and palliative care doulas) do. For example, there's this article on the BBC website; Nicole Kidman and Ruby Wax are reportedly undergoing training for this role, whilst Davina McCall has announced that she is planning to do so when she retires from her television activities.

Like birth doulas, who support mothers during pregnancy, childbirth and early parenthood, death doulas support people at the end of life. They help the dying person and their family in the final months and may be present at death, assist with funeral arrangements, and sometimes simply offer company.

They understand the dying process and can explain changes such as breathing and body temperature, which families may find distressing. Many people picture death like accidents on television dramas but will in fact die after a long terminal illness, so the physical changes will happen more gradually. Death doulas will explain that the dying person is not in pain.

Share
< Previous article| Comment| Next article >
Read more articles on:   death
Read more articles by Andrew Drury >>
Features
Reflections on life, possessions and eternal significance

Reflections on life, possessions and eternal significance

There is a somewhat apocryphal tale of two men talking at a reception after a funeral. One man asks the …

Features
Music for the last moments of life

Music for the last moments of life

In the midst of our sadness, when we sit beside a dying person, we encourage the person, and ourselves, with …

About en

Our vision, values and history

Read more

Give a subscription

Our monthly newspaper is the perfect gift for those who love to think deeply

Give here