A gospel solution to the drop in fertility rates

The fertility rate across the UK is now the lowest on record, with 1.44 children being born per woman of childbearing age.

There are many theories as to why: the cost of living crisis, the lack of affordable housing and the expense of childcare. Many dream of being able to one day afford a home in the suburbs, close to a good school, with a nice garden for their children to play in, but for now, they are stuck in the rut of long working hours and ready meals and can barely pay the rent for their apartment. Not ideal for family life.

In our post-Christian society, Biblical marriage has declined, and the pressures of finding a partner and staying committed for long enough to settle down and raise a family are also difficult. The rise in same-sex attraction and abortion has also had an impact on reproduction rates. More adults are making a conscious decision not to have children, favouring a career, leisure and travel. Others are reluctant to bring new life into a world of wars and rumours of wars.

Trusting in God

How does the gospel speak hope into our nation's fertility crisis? Firstly, we should trust God in this moment. A few decades ago, there was fear of a population explosion; today, it is with the decline. God remains in control either way (Romans 8:28).

Secondly, we should trust in God’s provision for us. Our decision to have children should not be based solely on economics or lifestyle choices. Despite the best possible preparation, none of us are ready to have children. We all learn how to parent as we grow with them.

You may not live in the ideal cottage with a white picket-fenced garden (yet), but with the Bible at your side, you could be exceptional parents in your little apartment. If your children are raised in a loving and respectful home, taught in the ways of the Lord, and you have the support of your local Church family, you will be fine (Proverbs 22:6). I write from the experience of having four children of my own. Finances can get tight, but a baby does not need a two thousand pound pram and designer clothes to have a happy start in life (Philippians 4:12). They want parents who will love, protect and guide them to Christ (Psalm 127:5).

I understand that childbearing is not for everyone; many beautiful souls have not entered parenthood for a variety of reasons. They serve the Church in wonderful ways, and I thank God for them. However, the Church should encourage married couples who are considering parenthood to think about such choices theologically rather than just economically. As a Church, we should consider ways in which we can support married couples in raising their children. Volunteering to help with child care, cooking meals, knitting blankets, helping financially if possible and preparing prospective parents for the emotional rollercoaster of sleepless nights. 

I pray that young couples will take the Biblical view of marriage seriously and enjoy building a relationship together that will last. To be able to raise a family of your own is a gift from God and something to be excited about.