Is your sermon trying to do too much?
Phil Moon
I normally take notes when someone else is preaching. It helps me concentrate and remember what is said – especially the good bits.
And, borne out of years trying to help others develop as preachers (and wanting to encourage others to do the same for me), I still tend to write down a few comments which I hope might help the preacher. Recently, I jotted down "grapeshot?"
Before you make that decision, ask this question...
Phil Moon
Some years ago, I was chatting to Peter Lewis, the former pastor of Cornerstone Church in Nottingham. We were having coffee at half-time in a meeting for pastors, and I was wondering how he had stayed so long at Cornerstone. I think at that point it was 37 years, but I may be mistaken. And I’ve never forgotten what he said.
Peter told me how every so often he’d pause and ask himself one question (undoubtedly surrounded with prayerful thought and discussion with at least Valerie, his wife). That one question was this: "Where can I be of most use?"
How good is your listening?
Phil Moon
As a leader, do you listen? I hope so, as I think you really need to. But sadly, it’s a bit too easy not to listen and far too easy to get into the habit of not listening.
There’s lots of listening we should be doing. Listening to the Lord through his Word. Listening to the world in which we live. Listening to those in authority over us. Listening to our spouses and children when they tell us they’ve forgotten who we are… I’d like to look at three other areas of listening where we may just be getting slightly deaf.
How do we lead without manipulating?
Phil Moon
Note: This article contains content that may be triggering for some readers.
I recently had a really helpful call from someone, and it made me think more about manipulation in Christian ministry.
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But who’s reviewing you?
Phil Moon
We live in a world of reviews, don’t we? Hardly a day goes by without several emails turning up, wanting me to review something.
I imagine that’s presumably because they want to do better - and so, I hope, do we. All the time. I hope and pray that my next sermon will be my best yet, the next meeting I chair the most effective so far, the next mentoring meeting to start to be useful, and the next bit of training I deliver, simply out of this world. Or better than last time anyway…
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Church leaders: should you be more open to change?
Phil Moon
I admit it. I love change. I recognise that most people find it far more of a struggle than I do - strange I know - so I’ll try and go gently.
A part of who we are
You’re a Christian? That does mean that you have experienced the greatest, most significant change that anyone could ever experience. You’ve started a new life. You really have. So, change is not altogether alien to us, is it? And as the Holy Spirit works in us, He is changing us, often very slowly, to become more and more like Jesus. Real change. It’s just part of who we are.
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Pastors: one year in and struggling?
Phil Moon
Am I the only one to notice that there seems to be such a thing as a 'first year dive’? It may be my imagination, but I think there's something to it.
I have a number of friends and know of several others who've got about one year in to a first position of responsibility – where you’re the senior pastor or vicar – and suddenly it hits them.
Why do church leaders communicate badly?
It’s often just a small "c", but it’s so important…
By which I mean communication.