How can I build genuine friendships and find acceptance? How can I live graciously with people whose beliefs and values differ from mine? How can I speak about my faith honestly, clearly and respectfully?
I recently heard these questions discussed on a radio programme for freshers preparing to enter university called: Why university is (not) a faith killer. While the discussions were reasonable, the programme seemed to assume that Christian students entering university need to win acceptance and influence their non-Christian peers. This aim may be commendable, yet they can leave freshers or returning students feeling on the defensive and at a disadvantage before they even arrive.
That apprehension is understandable. Many students are moving from the relative dependence of living at home to a new season of independence. They will meet people whose backgrounds, beliefs and experiences differ widely from their own, including people of many faiths and none.
It's crucial to know the places we are called to reach
Most of us can tell people how many people were at our service on Sunday. We are usually less certain …