How can I build genuine friendships and find acceptance? How can I live graciously with people whose beliefs and values differ from mine? How can I speak about my faith honestly, clearly and respectfully?
I recently heard these questions discussed on a radio programme for freshers preparing to enter university called: Why university is (not) a faith killer. While the discussions were reasonable, the programme seemed to assume that Christian students entering university need to win acceptance and influence their non-Christian peers. This aim may be commendable, yet they can leave freshers or returning students feeling on the defensive and at a disadvantage before they even arrive.
That apprehension is understandable. Many students are moving from the relative dependence of living at home to a new season of independence. They will meet people whose backgrounds, beliefs and experiences differ widely from their own, including people of many faiths and none.
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