Last Word: wisdom ‘Mum, what should I do when Harry tells me he won’t be my friend unless I let him cheat on the spelling test?’ ‘Dad, if we’ve been working so hard to save money, how come we’re not going to Barbados like Mia?’ ‘Mum, why did that celebrity die when they worked so hard, had such great health care, and went to the gym every day?’ Jonathan Worsley, Editor image: iStock Little people ask big questions. To our embarrassment, toddlers do not nuance their inquiries about injustice. Even teenage children humbly cross-examine Mum and Dad when their worldview crumbles. On one hand, as their parents, we love receiving such questions. We rejoice in participating in their intellectual exploration. We cherish that in an uncertain world we are still their rock (at least for a few more years). Yet, often we find ourselves tongue-tied. We replay conversations and notice the deficiency of our advice and of our answers. subscribe now Join today to gain access to the rest of this article and many others. more info login If you are already a subscriber, log in to continue. log in access code If you have an access code, enter it here: Go free trial Get free access for 14 days: Sign up Click here to find out how we take care of your personal data.