The secular media regularly describes us in terms which we hardly recognise but which, to them, are self-evident. They don’t describe us as filled with love for others. They call us hypocrites, shrill, bigoted, judgmental, mean-spirited and – worst of all – Pharisaical. Even some fellow Christians have jumped on the bandwagon, and have been known to describe us as the Taliban, people who don’t know the meaning of God’s kindly welcome.