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Miniskirts, mothers & MuslimsThe power of loveMINISKIRTS, MOTHERS & MUSLIMS This book is described as one 'for Christians venturing among Muslims'. It could be useful for anyone who is in contact with Muslims and wants to read between the lines so that they can live honourably alongside them. It is also a fascinating insight into the 'hidden values' (p.11) of another civilisation that any Christian can learn from. The foreword makes it clear that Christians are 'commissioned to preach God's compassion and love, but not to preach any civilisation, nationalism or emancipation' (p.10). The book explores some of the common cultural and religious mistakes Westerners have unwittingly made which have caused offence among Muslims. It also touches on Muslim perceptions of 'Westerners' and 'Christians', and how the two are confused. It covers status, the place of women, the veil, stereotypes, segregation and restrictions, family life, and hospitality and witness. Themes are presented with a collection of anecdotes from the author's 'thorough experience and knowledge of Islamic and Arab society and mentality' (p.10). The book is not a comprehensive guide to sharing faith with Muslims, nor a comparison of Christian and Islamic doctrine. In her superbly unpretentious manner, the author explains: 'Muslims do not want to hear the theological beliefs of not-very-nice people. Neither would anyone. If by your non-verbal communication you told your Muslim friend that he or she is not very important to you, and by your appearance and actions that you have few moral or spiritual aspirations, then there is no point in telling him or her about your faith that changed your life and made you into a new creation. This new creation may not be looking so good!' (p.178). Here we find a call to listen to local Muslims and really get to know and respect them. It helps the reader understand that even within the same culture, behaviour or appearances acceptable to some may be intolerable to others. The book is an encouragement to 'love Muslims for Christ's sake' (p.179). Liz Scott,
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